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dykesupremacy:

sex education blogs (which are probably followed by a lot of teenage girls who don’t get a decent sex education in school), reblogging things about how to “safely” be beaten up and strangled by your partner. how to act out a sexy rape scene. because abuse is so sexy. thats…

Actually NO. Sorry but “we don’t have a choice in what turns us on” is utter bullshit. Every piece of media imagery from the fist time we are self aware is shaping our sexuality, but in an age where nearly every piece of that imagery is telling girls that their sexuality is only acceptable when it is subsumed by that of an aggressive male, it can hardly be considered “natural” or inherent for women to crave violent abuse in their erotic lives. It is absolutely something artificial that is being imposed from external power structures that have a very real stake in keeping women compliant and in grooming them to be passive sexual prey. Material created for the purpose of EDUCATION has no business reifying or legitimizing that dynamic as it is /NOT/ liberating or edgy or “self aware”, it’s just more of the same. Fuck the idea of “kink shaming”, people who throw this term out there are only ever complaining when they’re caught out in dehumanizing women. It’s always some fucking creep who is whining that he can’t shit on women without being called out on it. I don’t care what people like that think, and if you think your own internal sexual agency got you to a place where you can only feel sexual arousal if a guy is choking you out with his dick, look around you. That didn’t come spontaneously out of nowhere. We have a responsibility to sleep with our politics, you cannot leave your values at the bedroom doors and young girls, the single most vulnerable population on this planet, need to be given information about sexuality that allows them to break out of this passive/victim/corpse role. This is not a question of what is “normal”, in our society, 50 SoG/Twilight are fucking “normal” sexuality! Queer inclusive, kink inclusive sexuality can be positive, healthy and life affirming, but that sex ed needs to always center authentic female pleasure, which, in this fucked up world is an elusive and oft misrepresented thing.

johnnyideaseed:

daveboogie:

Here is a pic of Grace Jones shoving cake into Divine’s mouth at what I believe was Grace’s 30th birthday party…you’re welcome!

It’s like “The Creation of Adam,” but relevant to my interests.

johnnyideaseed:

daveboogie:

Here is a pic of Grace Jones shoving cake into Divine’s mouth at what I believe was Grace’s 30th birthday party…you’re welcome!

It’s like “The Creation of Adam,” but relevant to my interests.

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pizzaight:

shutsman:

WHAT SPORT IS THIS?

my sport


But with giant donuts covered in sprinkles and pink icing.

pizzaight:

shutsman:

WHAT SPORT IS THIS?

my sport

But with giant donuts covered in sprinkles and pink icing.

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dykesupremacy:

sex education blogs (which are probably followed by a lot of teenage girls who don’t get a decent sex education in school), reblogging things about how to “safely” be beaten up and strangled by your partner. how to act out a sexy rape scene. because abuse is so sexy. thats what we need to teach young girls. great work, you fucking creeps.

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rapid-apathy:

"Not all men…"

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You don’t have to be born beautiful to be wildly attractive.

Diana Vreeland  (via tellmefive)

(Source: unculturedmag, via ragvinerust)